Regroup. Rebuild. Rediscover.

A blog isn't much of a blog without relevant posts and current discussion. Kind of similar to the fact that I wasn't much of a networker without my network. Many of you know that I loved the job I left last Wednesday but I struggled for seven months with one thing- I felt hopelessly detached from my network. I constantly felt like I was canceling lunch dates, registering for networking events and then ultimately dropping out, letting the mentor program at MU fall apart and frantically spending free time trying to reschedule meetups with friends (deep down knowing that rescheduled date would be canceled too).

I left with the utmost respect for opportunity I was given, the people that I met and the chance to really learn more about myself (my personal brand), my network and my future.

I read a blog post a while back about 'personal branding' and this quote really captured my attention: "Being a personal brand isn't all that useful to anyone else, if its just about you." Isn't that the truth? So, I decided to create a list of all the people that have contributed to my success, supported me along the way and made a lasting impression on me throughout the years. That list was LONG. That list also proved that my 'personal brand' is truthfully an extension of about 150 solid relationships that I have made in the city of Milwaukee. 

Some of these most influential people (to me) may not even know how much I value them as a person and professional and it's important I fill them in on the impression they made - even if it was for 15 minutes, a year or throughout my entire career. I could list them all, but instead I would like to call them each out in future blog posts - talking about who they are, why they matter to me (and why they could/should matter to you) and the difference they have made in my life.

So, I can finally say again - that I have made time for networking and I love networking. Well, actually, I love genuine networking. One-on-one meetings. Listening and responding. Asking questions and learning from others. Since I put my notice in, I have spent the last few weeks and practically my entire income on breakfasts, lunches, dinners and happy hours. 

It wasn't easy (for me - the 'I never relax'/I have to be productive personality) to take a week off and focus strictly on reconnecting with people but it has been the most rewarding week in a long time. I have had the chance to regroup with my network, rebuild the most meaningful relationships and rediscover the passion and energy I have for communicating with others.